Take me on. --a ha
I
am not certain that I’d incur any significant losses by telling you I am
researching bipolar disorder and pregnancy without yet having any potential
query clear in my mind. Sourcing obstetricians and patients is, on the basis of
contingency, a high wire act, thinking of my mother in her moribund jean
jumpers, besieged fertility goddess of her time, blood running down her thick
set thighs after she tripped outside a store. She straightened herself out
without the use of a metronome
during her pregnancy with Benjamin, her last child, only half-brother, rarely
to dwell on her memory, slovenly sexual energy shared by eldest daughter with
spears of pain in my shins, burdened more by sexual regret than anything, the
game still on in his mind, and as my mewing 9:15 ache indicates, still in my
mind too. The problem is I don’t have a clear read on what he wants. Why tell
me he had an anal sex daydream with me if he wants me to behave? A good deal of
the dowager’s arrogance was flattered by this admission, but the man’s passive
aggressive baiting then swiping me down perplexes me. If it is mere lechery he
could have had me by now, as my reactionary battalion of racial fear collapsed mid
month. If these are his weapons, I’ve deployed my own somewhat subtle
corral. It isn’t exactly nothing when daddy’s nonna puts poppa on the telephone
to greet an African American male over 50 keeping her buttocks in fairly good
hygiene, nor is it exactly nothing when this father’s sister decides to take
him out to dinner. Marie’s largesse astonishes even me, but my family must
appreciate the beatitude of my silence, a shotgun wedding with comedic
exaggeration between us, he and I—in his mind, he fears my family will force a
commitment on him if our already hairline intimacy billows away the scant
coverage shielding the breasts of which he gets a good glimpse on a daily
basis. No man or woman can ride this current forever, if it’s there. I’m old enough
to remember M-TV’s initial launch on cable, the primitive social media of its
day, making micro track musical narratives, all of which lumbered under Ken
Wahl’s hairstyle. Though a-ha is an industry promoted boy band, You Tube was
smart enough to take me back into time to the range of motion screaming in my
soul on the refrain of its confidence. If he and I have such a hold on each
other’s need, take on me, take me on,
our smart phones are all but a cock ring and dildo apart, in theory, rebuilding
the bridge I keep trying burn. There is nothing in my damaged womanhood he doesn’t know. How did I stay on my knees in this fantasy?
Let me correct myself: I have a secret or two left.